Good Morning!!!!
So when I got to work I started to feel a heaviness in my spirit about support from people. The support we all desire from those we consider friends and family, we put a mandate on them to give us that. Now, I posted a blog about change and how some people may not understand. I think this blog is a little similar but we need to get it into our heads that everybody is not going to support us. This morning I came across the quote ” Be the change you want to see.” Another quote came to my mind that I use everyday which is ” Be the person that you want to attract.” This quote isn’t only for romantic relationships, its for friendships as well. We attract those that are similar to us but if we begin to change for the better we start to attract those that are going in the same direction. When I got older, I wanted a circle of friends that were going to support me every step of the way. I got some friends who followed suit but I also lost some. Then, I had people who stayed in my life and pretended to root for me. How I was able to identify them was when I actually begin to change and grow. Some people root for you to change and when you actually start changing they become silent. That’s when I realized that everybody is not going to root for you.
We have to understand that the only things that matter is why we are changing. What is our why? Why do we want to please God with our changes? Some people start to do things out of God’s will because of the opinions of other people. We have to listen to what God says and understand that he may be the only person rooting for us in that season. We can’t get so caught up in people not rooting for us or giving up a pat on the back for something God has told us to do. If you want supportive people in your life , you are to pray to God and ask him to connect you with those types of people. Then you are suppose to represent what you desire to have in your life. For example, If you are full of negativity expect to attract negative people. Just trust God in all of this because he will send you what you need. Be true to yourself and stay focused, because the people you need will come at the right time. Focus on growing and maturing in character and God will meet you right where you are. I hope this post helps you understand that everybody is not going to root for you, but God will. Whatever we desire in Life, we can make some changes in ourselves to get those things. Don’t focus on the people, Focus on God and the things he’s called you to do. Until next time….. Be Blessed !!!
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