You have to see yourself as worth it! How you see yourself is how people will see you. A lot of times women struggle with the feeling of not being worthy. Not feeling worthy of a good/Godly man, not feeling worthy of leading in ministry, not feeling worthy of God using them, etc. Just to let you know, you’re not the only person experiencing these feelings. So there is nothing wrong with you, however, you can change. Our worth Is found in God and him only. Every time you try to find worth in people, you will fail. For those who are struggling in a romantic relationship and you feel like your partner doesn’t value your worth. The majority of the time they don’t! It’s up to you if you will allow them to take advantage of you. YOUR WORTH IS IN GOD, NOT RELATIONSHIP WITH MAN!!!
Psalm 139:13-14 says, For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. God created you and you were fearfully and wonderfully made. No one should ever make you feel worthless because they did not create you. Let me give you a quick testimony. When I was in a relationship I struggled with low self-esteem, feeling worthless, sexual sin, and the list goes on. I thought it would lead to marriage because I was so deeply in lust ( Thought it was love). I allowed anything to happen and be said in the relationship. I did not know my worth so I thought things like verbal abuse was okay because he didn’t physically touch me. I thought that having premarital sex was okay because we were eventually going to get married. I thought that the excessive arguing meant he cared and that it was normal. I experienced this for 3 years and the holy spirit was tugging on my heart the whole time.
Just so you know, what you allow will continue to happen. You have to make a stand and change how you see yourself. I want to encourage you that YOU’RE WORTH IT! You’re worth the respect, worth the Godly relationships/friendships, worth consistency, worth commitment, worth honesty, worth true love. Sis, YOU’RE WORTH IT! Whoever is in your life that does not value your worth, give them to God and take a step back. As you adhere to the holy spirit, he will show you what you need to do. Make a declaration that you will no longer see yourself as worthless and that you’re worth it! There are a few steps that I would like to share:
Take it to God in prayer
Renew your mind( What you think, you become)
Study scriptures on worth and find stories that relate to your current circumstance
Write Declarations and repeat them daily
Journal your thoughts
Take your time( Transformation of the mind doesn’t happen overnight)
Let Go ( Whatever God reveals to you in prayer/quiet time)
NEVER STOP PRAYING
These steps will help you get a head start on making a change. Just trust God and allow him to lead you in this area. Don’t be afraid of what God has to say because he disciplines those he loves. Because he knows that you’re worth it 🙂
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